4 years ago today
3 years ago
2 years ago (with my BIL)
Last year.....
Just because it comes in your size doesn't mean you should wear it.
(yes, that's lovely 70's paneling down there- that is another story for another day) and I cleaned out the storage room (or the pump room as I also call it) I went through all of my stored boxes looking for junk to get rid of. I emptied out 4 tubs of storage items into the garage sale pile. There is still alot of stuff I am either unwilling or unable to get rid of , but every year that pile gets smaller. I have a lot of stuff to store. Boxes of memorabilia from my childhood, about 8 Rubbermaid tubs of Christmas stuff, 3 tubs of Barbie Dolls ( I used to collect them- at one time I had 10 tubs of them- all still in their boxes and perfect. I sold most of them on Ebay) and many, many tubs of books my Mr. has collected. But, back to the sale pile. There is about 30+ boxes of crap in that pile, and that's not counting the furniture, the toys and other stuff- strollers (2), picnic table, big toys, ride on's etc.... . Out in the garage are another 15 or 20 boxes of garage sale stuff out there. Then there is the clothing rolling rack. I have a large commercial rolling rack FULL and overflowing of clothes that I have decided to get rid of. After 2 Wardrobe Therapies, I have decided to let other people have these items. They are great and in fabulous condition and it's a shame they are in my basement not being used. With the economy the way it is- these will be a great deal for someone.
My Mr. cleaned out our garage this weekend. I put out all of the garden stuff. Planters, art, hanging stuff....
The white thing on the ground is a baby gate. I use it to keep the dog on the porch. As you can see, it's finally getting green.I bought 2 new large rugs at Lowes on clearance for 10.99 each (down from 148.00 each) one will be used in the basement tv area, the other is at my Mothers house. She wanted to see if it would work in her dining room.
I put together our stuff for the first antique show (this Sunday) that my Mr. is helping my parents with. (since my Dad had his heart thing, we thought it would be a good idea to send a 3rd pair of hands to help with the canopy and set up- and it wasn't going to be me.)
I worked on the 6 dolls I am currently in the process of finishing. These are taking a long time and I don't know why. Maybe because I was watching "Torchwood" and "Dr . Who" more than I was sewing and beading?
I spent some time thinking about what my "style" was, what things (art, fabrics, music, smells, books etc) I liked and if they had anything to do with my style. I think that they do, but that's for another post.
I had the MIL over for dinner ( it was the second anniv. of her husbands- my Mr.'s Dad's- death) I made a ham, biscuits and asparagus and roasted carrots. Things went well, and I think she is doing great now. She has a new life and seems quite happy.
My last thought for this post-
I can't believe that gas is 3.69 a gallon here. I am thankful I no longer have a gas guzzler and/or work 140 miles away from my home (round trip)
the winter purses to be stored away.
I haven't done much with AT cure this week. My bathrooms are fine. I re did them both last year. Actually this summer the main bath will be gutted. New cabinet, lights and flooring (which we already have) maybe even a new toilet. So, to do anything now would be a waste of time, and who can waste time indoors when the weather is so fabulous outside?

How I store my off season purses - 5 canvas boxes.

Oops- I forgot 2 I love- the large leather tote is a great shopping bag, and the smaller yellow purse is so versatile.

This is how they are stored. The bags out of season are in the canvas bags at the bottom of my closet, the ones in season are stored on the top shelf. There are 2 larger ones on a hook on the inside of my closet door also. I like to keep them out so it's easier to change out from look to look.
That's it. I know I have a lot of bags, but I only have as many as I can store. Really. I change my purse out a lot- 2 or 3 times a week depending on what I am doing. I love colored bags in the summer. I don't wear much color in my clothes, and this I think gives me the lift that I need in my summer outfits. Do my purse choices say anything about me? I don't know. I guess they must.
I am kind of a purse snob, I have to admit. Purses don't have to be designer or expensive, but they must be nice. They must be clean. They must be appropriate to the occasion and or outfit the person is wearing. It is just so sad to see a woman who is dressed rather well carrying a decrepit ,dirty, cheap purse that had it's last good day years ago. You know how they say good shoes makes your entire outfit look better? The same is true with bags. But again- good bags don't have to be expensive or designer or even leather, I can't emphasise that enough. There is a difference between inexpensive and cheap- know the difference !


These are the middle range heels- 2 inches or so. All but one pair is Nine West. All are staying.

My flats. These are just as uncomfortable for me as high heels.
So, what do these shoes say about me? Well, they are almost all from my "past life" so not much. I am wearing mostly tennis shoes and flip flops now. I don't go many places where heels would be useful, acceptable or even warranted. I don't care what those fools at "what not to wear" would say -in large areas of America (like where I live), women do not dress up to go grocery shopping or to the park. Those pointy toed heels they love so much look great on some people, but unless you live in a larger city, they will just look out of place. Those of us who have to deal with weather (ie snow) laugh at those shoes. We need to find appropriate, comfortable ,fashionable shoes for our day- to -day life in middle America. Fly over country if you wish. We need people to understand how we live, what we do, and what we need. Not a set of rules for dressing that have nothing to do with our way of life.
Off soap box.

What I have done this week so far-



What I have to do this week

That is an awfully large list. It may bleed over into next week if I don't get my butt in gear.
These I wear year round, so they were available today to discuss. There are 6 pair here. I will start at the bottom left.
Black DKNY tennis shoes. These are a little old, but leather, don't hurt my feet, and in good condition. I don't know why I need black tennis shoes. But I am going to keep them.
Lime green Merril. Leather and mesh. I am wearing them now, and they seem a bit large. I will have to wear them a bit more to see if they make the cut.
Baby blue Kangaroos. Nope. Not gonna make it. Gotta go.
Brown Puma. Hmmmm.... seemed like a good idea at the time. But they are comfy enough for yard work. So they stay.
Top left is a weird blue/green leather pair of Merrill's. They have that bungee cord thing instead of laces or velcro. They are uber-comfy. The problem? NO VENTILATION. I mean none. The smell of feet when I remove these shoes would kill a gorilla. I have to put them in another room- but comfy they are, so they stay.
Last pair- grey mesh Merrill's. I love these shoes. Comfy, mesh, so they breath all over. Velcro so easy on/easy off. Keepers- and I hope they make them again this year so I can get another pair.
To be honest, I have a problem with my feet. They hurt all the time. I have been to doctors and no real, conclusive, reason has been found yet. Just a lot of -I think, or maybe's. I say yet though , because there is a possibility. Due to my cancer and resulting surgery, they removed my lymph glands. Without these, the lymph fluid tends to collect at the lowest point in your body- the legs and feet.
Right after my surgery 4 years ago I was warned about fluid and fluid collection. Lymphedema is a really serious , kind of gross, condition. Did you see the show about the woman with the 99 lb. leg? That is caused by lymphedema. I didn't provide a link because, honestly, the pictures are icky. You can google if you wish. I had a bout of it after my surgery- my left leg ballooned up about 25%, but then it went back down. Right now, my legs are a bit puffy but that's it. But I have had left knee problems and foot issues for about 4 years now. ( I almost had knee surgery last winter but decided not to at the last minute) so I may have an answer.
I loved shoes. Loved them. But heels make my feet hurt and swell after about 10 minutes. Flat shoes are torture- no arch support so I can't wear them. Plus, I need my shoes to be able to get off my feet rather quickly- so my shoe options are rather limited now and it kills me. I can't be a slave to fashion any more, but I will NOT wear ugly orthopedic nightmares. I just can't. So it's off for more shoe shopping.

that's it. I am going to try to finish the laundry room today if my knee holds out, and my Mr. will be working in the yard ,one of our planter boxes fell off the porch yesterday so we have a lot of work to do out there too.....Tomorrow we won't get anything done except shopping. I am taking my Mr. to Ikea tomorrow. He has never been before. Never been to Ikea. I can't get over this fact. This should prove to be interesting. He is not a very good shopper, so I have warned him how big this place is, and how long it will take..... and how much money we may spend. I hope he's up to it.
Monday it started to rain, Tuesday the river broke it's bank and started to flood my backyard. Now, thank the Lord, it's receding. Here is what it looks like now-Piles of piles. I do have a lot less spring/summer clothes than winter stuff. I would like to say it's because spring/summer is shorter so I have less of a need. I would like to say that. I don't think it's true though. So here is my stuff. It's all good with exception of one or two pieces.
Skirts, pants, and jeans-
There are 7 skirts total they are all staples except one- top right is a black and white skirt- I love this skirt. Top middle is a denim skort- again, it's great. Middle bottom are 2 black knit jersey stretch skirts. Both pencil type, they come right below my knee which for me is perfect. Top left is a black skirt, pencil type but a little short, to my knee- and I have really ugly knee caps (volleyball injuries) so this had to go I think. Bottom left are 2 skirts, a line, below my knee, they are identical one is solid brown, the other a brown print. I wear them later in the season when it gets to near fall.
4 Pair of Khaki pants. The two on the right side are both from Eddie Bauer. Flat front, straight leg, good length. Nice pants. The top left is a pair of dockers- they are ok. I would like them to be more of a straight leg or bootcut, but they are ok. The bottom left is a strange pair of khaki bootcut cargo pants from Tommy Hilfiger. They have this weird lace detail that I despise. I think they may be to tight too. They go into a pile to think about and probably will be sent away to be replaced with something less "girly" I mean, come on- lace cargo pants? There is a mystery shopping purchase.
I actually have 5 pair of jeans I like, but one is dirty right now. As you can see they are all dark, 2 are levis, one is a j jill, the other is gap. The missing pair are lees. They are all bootcut except the j jill and the gap pair- those are straight leg. The bottom right is the gap pair and I am less thrilled with them. I may move those to the not everyday wearing and to the odd jobs/dirty jobs pile.
Here are my jackets.




Brown suit w/ pants above, and very very loud silk shirt that is about 10 years old. I wear it like a jacket over a white t shirt and either black pants or jeans.
This is my favorite shirt/jacket of all time. It's an Eddie Bauer washable suede shirt. Black or course, with western styling and snaps. I bet I wear this 4 times a week. When it dies I will cry real tears.
This is the weird thing- when I took my jeans out of my closet, stuck to the back was this little doll. I made it- it's a little one I make for re sale. I just know I didn't put it in here. My son can't reach this high and my husband didn't do it either. How did it get in here? With it's hair stuck in bracket hole? How long has it been in here? Creepy..........
Apartment Therapy Spring Cure Week 4
I got a lot less done on Monday and Tuesday than normal because the MR. was sick at home with a cold and no voice (he's better and back at work today) so I had 2 babies to take care of.....
I have a huge list of things to do this week, but very little energy. Today is just general cleaning day- floors, laundry, bathrooms and kitchen. Maybe tonight I will bring up the rugs and secretary..... or maybe I will veg and watch tv.
On line inspiration files, stuff I've bought, things I've seen, items I want. Throw in some politics,weather, and kid stuff and this is my life.
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